I am of course sorry for you both, health is more important than anything else. Howsomever, one thing you both still have is a wife.
I will now do my bit, this is not to make you feel sorry for me, but to help you count your own blessings.
It is 19 months since Hans died, I have been on my own except for the 3 months I spent with Heike, so---- I am all alone (but not lonely), I am in a foreign country, not an area where a lot of English is spoken, can´t go out anyway, no real friends and no relatives close by, do you hear me moaning, I hope not.
I spoke to Heike this morning and now not only am I planning a holiday for next year 2022, I am thinking of a holiday for this year, staying in Germany. At 77 in September I may not have a lot more active years so must make the best of what I do have.
I am hoping to learn a bit of French and maybe bit of Spanish ready for next year, if I don´t I will get by as everyone else does using hands feet and facial expressions. I have started reading on the Kindle again, I also find interesting things to read about on the internet, watch my precious Netflix in the dark evenings, no time for housework, the hoover is waiting, I must pick up a duster, but who cares nobody is coming into the house.
I am content I think the only thing I find to moan about is other people moaning :frown2: But then again I am not in the UK, everything is different there :grin2:
I like my pancakes with golden syrup and lemon juice. :laugh: